How can I know if I am on someones messenger list?

I may have accepted someones request and be on their messenger list but have not added them to my list or I have deleted them but do not remember who has added me. Is there anyway for me to know who's list i'm on like on msn messenger? Thank you!

i asked to be added to someones messenger list and now it says next to their name add awaiting response and i wanted to know if they refuse to respond how long will the awaiting response remain next to their name on my friends list or will it eventually...

See I want to be completely off someones messenger list. So I was wondering if I could do it by deleting my yahoo id and getting a new one. But I just really want to know if it will work if I just delete my whole account??? Please help!!!

How do I remove my yahoo messenger ID off their friends list, so they can not send me any messages on yahoo messenger?

There is someone I gave my yahoo messenger ID to but I don't want this person to be able to messenger me due to personal reasons. How can I take my name off of his list.

i hope to get new buddy list soi can chat whit my friend on yahoo messenger .so i would like to have something to keep buddy list on it and most time i go to deaf chat they want me to put on buddy list that what i need to do .

Of course I do not want to ask him whether he has deleted me or not. I want to know if there is a way to determine whether a yahoo messenger friend has deleted me from his messenger friend list. Thanks.

I deleted this person out of my messenger list,and i want to find out if she/he deleted or ignored me.Because they aren't in my list anymore,i can't check the bubble next to the contact anymore. What can I do?