How to post a Youtube video into my blog?

I've been trying to figure this out forever, but I can't seem to find any help using google, but I was wondering how exactly some bloggers are posting songs from youtube without the video, so it's just like an mp3 player. Example: http://www.foxtailandfern...

It never works for me cause I can see only the html after I post it. So maybe I am not doing it right. Maybe I don't`post it where it should be done...

i tried pasting the html code youtube gave me but the video didnt come up, any help?

I dont try to pass it off as my own, and it does have the name of the person who wrote it at the start of the video clip.It's not a musical video, more like a demonstration and arguments.

I need Help please>>>>>>>>>>>>

I already tried these instructions - pasted below - that someone else had posted elsewhere, but it still doesn't work on my end. When I post my blog, it still just shows all the codes instead of the embedded video window. 1. write something on ur blog...

ok I thought I did it right. but it isn't working! I wrote my blog, pushed 'View HTML Source', put in my video, the embed code and pushed preview and then post this blog it didn't work. Is there a different way to do it? I keep seeing a blank box the...